Marriage coaching for affair recovery and standing spouses
Yes, one person can save a marriage. We know — ours was the marriage everyone said was over. Today we coach couples walking the same road we walked: affairs, addiction, separation, and the long climb back to trust.
Restoring hope, healing, and intimacy — even when it feels too late
No matter how hopeless it seems, there is ALWAYS hope.
Overcoming affairs and betrayal
We personally understand the deep wounds caused by infidelity. Ren was the spouse who cheated. Adelé was the standing spouse who refused to give up. Through proven strategies and Christian marriage coaching rooted in our own affair recovery, we help couples rebuild trust, rediscover connection, and find hope after betrayal.
Healing from addiction’s impact in your marriage
Addiction can strain even the strongest relationships — and we know, because Ren spent 20 years battling it. With empathy, lived experience, and proven guidance, we assist couples in addressing the challenges of addiction, fostering understanding, and paving the way for recovery and marriage reconciliation.
Breaking free from toxic patterns
Toxic behaviors can hold your marriage hostage. Together, we identify and overcome patterns of control, manipulation, and hurt, equipping you with tools to create a healthy, thriving partnership.
Does any of this sound like your marriage right now?
Your trust has been shattered by betrayal.
When trust is broken by infidelity or dishonesty, it can feel impossible to rebuild. The pain lingers, leaving you wondering if your marriage can survive—or if it’s even worth the effort to try.
You're not alone. We've been there, and we help couples every day discover the tools to rebuild trust and create something even stronger.
You feel like strangers in the same home.
Has emotional distance left you feeling disconnected and misunderstood? It’s as if you’re living with a roommate rather than a spouse.
We can guide you to restore connection and rediscover the joy of truly knowing each other again.
Addiction and toxic patterns are weighing down your marriage.
Addiction, manipulation, control, or unhealthy habits can turn your marriage into a battlefield. It may feel like a never-ending cycle of conflict, blame, and hurt.
Together, we can help you identify and overcome these patterns to create a healthier, more loving relationship.
If you said “yes” to any of the above, you’re in the right place!
Let's start healing together
Yes, one person CAN save a marriage - our story proves it.
No matter what you're going through, there is hope for your marriage. We experienced it all: addiction, multiple affairs, control, manipulation...years of toxicity. Let us help you to shift your focus, heal from the hurt, and create an environment that can restore your marriage.
"I knew instantly that Ren was the right coach for me. Just simply because he was easy to talk to and knew exactly what I was feeling because of his own past. I could relate to him. He gave me hope knowing that him and his wife Adele (also an amazing coach) were successful in reconciling their own marriage." MTG
How we help couples rebuild: coaching, community, and courses
1:1 Marriage coaching with Ren or Adelé
Our story of overcoming addiction, affairs, and separation proves that no marriage is beyond repair. Now as marriage coaches, we guide couples through their toughest challenges with proven tools, compassionate support, and a focus on rebuilding trust and connection. Whether you're on the brink of separation or seeking deeper intimacy, coaching provides the clarity, hope, and direction you need to create a stronger, healthier marriage.
The Marriage Heroes Community for standing spouses
Our Marriage Heroes Community is where you’ll find strength, encouragement, and real connection with others who are also standing for their marriages. Through weekly support calls, teaching, and a safe space to share, you’ll gain the hope and tools you need to stay strong and keep moving forward.
Online marriage restoration courses
Get The Marriage S.O.S. Toolkit now.
Real Couples. Real Recovery. Real Stories.
"Ren’s coaching helped during one of the most difficult times in my life and helped me to focus on what I could control during times when it seemed like so much was out of control. Ren helped me understand my value as a person is not dependent on anyone else, and reinforced that as a child of God, I always have unconditional love. I left my coaching sessions feeling heard and empowered to take actions to improve myself." JS
"I have found coaching with Ren to be very beneficial. At the end of each session, I have a renewed sense of determination to stand for what is right and leave a legacy for our children. Ren offers sound advice while delivering truth with love, enabling each person to make their own informed decisions. Coaching has helped keep me grounded in my stand, focus on making the next right decision, and have empathy and understanding toward my spouse." FD
“Ren and Adele are awesome. Help to set personal goals with empathy, compassion and experience. I cannot recommend them both enough. So glad I chose you as coaches.” Andrea House
“I’ve been coaching with Ren for over a year now and it’s been amazing so far. For what I’m going through, he’s just so well placed to give solid guidance and when you feel like all is lost and you’re stuck, every session so far has encouraged me to continue going. The journey feels lonely and it’s invaluable to have a coach / guidance who speaks from experience and not from some theory. I’m so grateful to have found Ren as coach. His wife Adele is equally amazing, I met her during support calls and again her guidance means so much. Their story gives me hope to continue working on myself and learning. I’ve become a better person in many ways as well due to what they teach and coach. Ren and Adele are a gift from God, and I’m so grateful I have them helping me through the most difficult time in my life.” CS
What is a 'standing spouse'?
CLICK HERE to learn what a standing spouse is, how to stand, what to expect, what not to do if you want to save your marriage and much more.
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