This Is For You If…
You feel panicked, rejected, or stuck—and every attempt to “fix it” seems to make it worse.
You’re ready to choose who you will be in this crisis, rather than letting the crisis choose for you.
You want clear steps that lower defensiveness, rebuild trust, and create room for reconciliation.
What You’ll Get Inside (4 Short Videos + Tools)
S — Stop Pushing Your Spouse Away
Spot “push” behaviors (begging, over-explaining, over-loving) in real time
Swap panic for calm, short, safe communication
Drop the emergency mindset so one moment doesn’t derail your stand
O — One Person Can Save a Marriage
Use confirmation bias for hope (cauldron & color analogies)
Change what you add so the mix changes—even if they don’t
Hold necessary boundaries; skip the rest
S — Start Gaining Back Your Influence
Influence ≠ manipulation: become a safe, consistent person
Acceptance ≠ agreement—validate feelings without endorsing choices
Consistency builds trust; unpredictability kills it
How to Build Influence (Practicals)
Trust: follow-through & integrity (actions > claims)
Regulation: be safe to tell hard truths
L-U-V: Listen, Understand (feelings), Validate
Lead & care: model it, show real appreciation, kind empathy
